英语学习资料:说声谢谢(Say thank you)

Nov19

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  our natural tendency when others give suggestions we don’t agree with is to immediately bee defensive and prove they are wrong. our natural tendency when others give suggestions we do agree with is to point out that we “already knew that,” implying that the suggestion is unnecessary.the next time someone gives you an idea or counsel, listen without judgment, try to find value in what you’re hearing, and say: “thank you.”

  this sage advice is easy to understand yet hard to practice. i’ll give you an example from my life when i totally blew it in terms of practicing what i teach. my guess is that when you read my story, you’ll agree that what i did was not only stupid, it was dangerous. i’ll also predict that you’ve done the same stupid thing that i did—perhaps even on multiple occasions.